10 Unwritten Rules of Halloween That Every Family Follows
Halloween is a time for fun, frights, and a little bit of chaos (especially if my house is a barometer of chaos)—especially when you have kids in tow. While the holiday comes with its own set of traditions, every family seems to have their own unwritten rules that help make Halloween night memorable. Here are ten unwritten rules of Halloween that most families follow to ensure a spook-tacular time:
1. Candy Trading is Mandatory
After a night of trick-or-treating, the real fun begins: the candy trade. It’s an unspoken rule that everyone gathers around to swap their least favorite candies for the ones they love. Whether it’s trading your licorice for more chocolate or striking deals for that last peanut butter cup, candy trading is where Halloween bonds are made.
2. The Parent Tax is Non-Negotiable
Every parent knows about the "parent tax," the unwritten rule that allows them to snag a few pieces of candy from their kids’ haul. Whether it’s a “thank you” for chaperoning or just a chance to relive your own trick-or-treating days, the parent tax is a well-accepted Halloween tradition.
3. The Early Bird Gets the Best Candy
There’s a silent understanding that if you want the best candy, you’ve got to start trick-or-treating early. The unwritten rule is simple: those who hit the streets first get the full-size candy bars, while the latecomers might end up with the leftovers.
4. Respect the Decorated Houses
Houses decked out in Halloween decorations deserve extra respect—and maybe even an extra “thank you.” It’s an unwritten rule that these homes have gone the extra mile to make the night special, and they usually give out the best treats, too!
5. Costumes Are Not Just for Kids
Halloween isn’t just for the little ones; parents are expected to get in on the costume action, too. Whether you’re coordinating as a family theme or just wearing something fun, dressing up is an unwritten rule that makes the holiday more enjoyable for everyone.
6. No Costume, No Candy
The unwritten rule for trick-or-treaters is clear: if you’re not wearing a costume, you don’t get any candy. Even a simple mask or a pair of cat ears counts, but showing up in regular clothes might leave you empty-handed.
7. Always Have a Backup Plan
When it comes to Halloween, it’s wise to expect the unexpected. Whether it’s extra candy for the kid who wasn’t planning to go trick-or-treating or a backup costume in case of a last-minute wardrobe malfunction, having a Plan B is an unwritten rule that can save the day.
8. The First Piece of Candy Can Be Eaten Before Dinner
There’s an unwritten Halloween rule that, just this once, it’s okay to have a piece of candy before dinner. It’s part of the magic of the night, and every parent knows that the real challenge is getting the kids to eat anything else!
9. Trick-or-Treating Ends When the Porch Lights Go Out
Everyone knows that a house with the porch lights off is done for the night. It’s an unwritten rule of trick-or-treating that when the lights are out, it’s time to move on to the next house—or head home to sort your loot.
10. Halloween Memories Last a Lifetime
Finally, the most important unwritten rule: make memories that will last. Whether it’s the laughter from a costume mishap, the thrill of spooky decorations, or the joy of seeing your kids’ faces light up with excitement, Halloween is about creating moments that your family will remember for years to come.
These unwritten rules of Halloween are what make the holiday so special. They add an extra layer of fun and tradition to a night already filled with excitement. So, as you prepare for this year’s Halloween festivities, keep these rules in mind—and enjoy every spooky, candy-filled moment!
